Choosing Your Executive Coach - Coaching Your Relationships at Work

Are you working in a company or law firm where- Supporting your 360 degree feedback team to
leaders choose executive coaches as part of achampion your success
leadership development program? Does yourIf your executive coach doesn't raise these points
organization pick executive coaches who are ain your initial conversations, make sure they're
great fit with the company culture?included in the coaching process. Your executive
One of the most powerful questions you can askcoach can provide the most value to you and
is "Will my executive coach also work to influenceyour organization when all key players actively
people at my workplace to support me insupport coaching clients getting better. Both the
achieving my coaching goals and getting better?"coachee and organization benefit from the
Emotionally intelligent and socially intelligent leadersprocess.
have a clear plan for selecting seasoned coachesIt is possible to coach a company leader without
who can also work with the organization to helpactive involvement with the organization.
you reach your goals and add more value to bothHowever, my experience in coaching leaders over
you and your organization.the past twenty years suggests that the more
Influencing Others Perception of Youthe coach knows about the context or workplace
Behavioral change is not the only executiveenvironment the more effective he can be.
coaching goal. Executive coaches also helpBehavior does not change in a vacuum.
colleagues become aware of the changes yousometimes changing the environment or culture
make, invite them to become involved in yourcan provide the necessary conditions for behavior
development and possibly change their behavior inchange to take place. It takes a lot of openness
relation to you. A qualified, experienced executiveand trust on the part of the organization to allow
coach can influence others perception of you by:the coach to partner with the organization as well
- Coaching your relationships while helping youas the executive coaching clients. Working
improvecollaboratively with both the coachee and his/her
- Collaborating with your company to ensure theorganization can maximize the success of the
environment is conducive to successcoaching engagement.
- Challenging others' assumptions that you are theWorking with a seasoned executive coach trained
only one with a problemin emotional intelligence and incorporating leadership
- Contracting with key colleagues to determineassessments such as the Bar-On EQ-i and CPI
their desired outcomes of the coaching process260 can help you achieve success by influencing
and assessing their willingness to share feedbackothers in your organization to have a stake in
and participate in conversationsyour success.. You can become a leader who
- Facilitating conversations between you andmodels emotional intelligence and social intelligence,
colleagues to share coaching insights, developmentand who inspires people to become happily
plans and new expectations (in both directionsengaged and aligned with the vision and mission of
- Helping you receive ongoing feedback onyour company or law firm.
relevant behaviors