Conflict Management FROM POME BY GAUTAM KOPPALA VT

Conflict Management- To create goodwill (be magnanimous)
 Forcing (or Competing, Being Uncooperative, Being
Assertive)
The project manager has often been described- When you'll lose anyway
as a conflict manager. In many organizations the- To gain time
project manager continually fights fires and crisesThis is what happens when one party tries to
evolving from conflicts, and delegates theimpose the solution on the other party. Conflict
day-to-day responsibility of running the project toresolution works best when resolution is achieved
the project team members. Although this is notat the lowest possible levels. The higher up the
the best situation, it cannot always be prevented,conflict goes, the greater the tendency for the
especially after organizational restructuring or theconflict to be forced, with the result being a
initiation of projects requiring new resources."win-lose" situation in which one party wins at the
The ability to handle conflicts requires anexpense of the other. Forcing should be used:
understanding of why they occur. Asking and- When you are right
answering these four questions may help handle- When a do-or-die situation exists
and prevent conflicts.- When stakes are high
- What are the project objectives and are they in- When important principles are at stake
conflict with other projects?- When you are stronger (never start a battle
- Why do conflicts occur?you can't win)
- How do we resolve conflicts?- To gain status or to gain power
- Is there any type of analysis that could identify- In short-term, one-shot deals
possible conflicts before they occur?- When the relationship is unimportant
 - When it's understood that a game is being
Each project must have at least one objective.played
The objectives of the project must be madeAvoiding (or Withdrawing)
known to all project personnel and all managers,- When a quick decision must be made
at every level of the organization. If thisAvoidance is often regarded as a temporary
information is not communicated accurately, thensolution to a problem. The problem and the
it is entirely possible that upper-level managers,resulting conflict can come up again and again.
project managers, and functional managers maySome people view avoiding as cowardice and an
all have a different interpretation of the ultimateunwillingness to be responsive to a situation.
objective, a situation that invites conflicts. As anAvoiding should be used:
example, company X has been awarded a- When you can't win
$100,000 government contract for surveillance of- When the stakes are low
a component that appears to be fatiguing. Top- When the stakes are high, but you are not
management might view the objective of thisready yet
project to be discovering the cause of the fatigue- To gain time
and eliminating it in future component production.- To unnerve your opponent
This might give company X a "jump" on the- To preserve neutrality or reputation
competition. The division manager might just view- When you think the problem will go away
it as a means of keeping people employed, with- When you win by delay
no follow-on possibilities. The department managerCASE STUDIES—FACILITIES SCHEDULING AT
can consider the objective as either another jobMAYER MANUFACTURING
that has to be filled, or a means of establishingEddie Turner was elated with the good news that
new surveillance technology. The departmenthe was being promoted to section supervisor in
manager, therefore, can staff the necessarycharge of scheduling all activities in the new
positions with any given degree of expertise,engineering research laboratory. The new
depending on the importance and definition of thelaboratory was a necessity for Mayer
objective.Manufacturing. The engineering, manufacturing, and
Project objectives must be:quality control directorates were all in desperate
- Specific, not generalneed of a new testing facility. Upper-level
- Not overly complexmanagement felt that this new facility would
- Measurable, tangible, and verifiablealleviate many of the problems that previously
- Appropriate level, challengingexisted.
- Realistic and attainableThe new organizational structure required a
- Established within resource boundschange in policy over use of the laboratory. The
- Consistent with resources available or anticipatednew section supervisor, on approval from his
- Consistent with organizational plans, policies, anddepartment manager, would have full authority
proceduresfor establishing priorities for the use of the new
Unfortunately, the above characteristics are notfacility. The new policy change was a necessity
always evident, especially if we consider that thebecause upper-level management felt that there
project might be unique to the organization inwould be inevitable conflict between
question. As an example, research andmanufacturing, engineering, and quality control.
development projects sometimes start outAfter one month of operations, Eddie Turner was
general, rather than specific. Research andfinding his job impossible, so Eddie has a meeting
development objectives are reestablished as timewith Gary Whitehead, his department manager.
goes on because the initial objective may not beEddie: "I'm having a hell of a time trying to satisfy
attainable. As an example, company Y believesall of the department managers. If I give
that they can develop a high-energyengineering prime-time use of the facility, then
rocket-motor propellant. A proposal is submittedquality control and manufacturing say that I'm
to the government, and, after a review period,playing favorites. Imagine that! Even my own
the contract is awarded. However, as is the casepeople say that I'm playing favorites with other
with all R&D projects, there always existsdirectorates. I just can't satisfy everyone."
the question of whether the objective is attainableExhibit 7-1: Mayer Manufacturing organizational
within time, cost, and performance constraints. Itstructure
might be possible to achieve the initial objective, 
but at an incredibly high production cost. In this 
case, the specifications of the propellant (i.e., initialGary: "Well, Eddie, you know that this problem
objectives) may be modified so as to align themcomes with the job. You'll get the job done."
closer to the available production funds.Eddie: "The problem is that I'm a section
Many projects are directed and controlled using asupervisor and have to work with department
management-by-objective (MBO) approach. Themanagers. These department managers look
philosophy of management by objectives:down on me like I'm their servant. If I were a
- Is proactive rather than reactive managementdepartment manager, then they'd show me some
- Is results oriented, emphasizing accomplishmentrespect. What I'm really trying to say is that I
- Focuses on change to improve individual andwould like you to send out the weekly memos to
organizational effectivenessthese department managers telling them of the
Management by objectives is a systemsnew priorities. They wouldn't argue with you like
approach for aligning project goals withthey do with me. I can supply you with all the
organizational goals, project goals with the goalsnecessary information. All you'll have to do is to
of other subunits of the organization, and projectsign your name."
goals with individual goals. Furthermore,Gary: "Determining the priorities and scheduling the
management by objectives can be regarded as a:facilities is your job, not mine. This is a new
- Systems approach to planning and obtainingposition and I want you to handle it. I know you
project results for an organizationcan because I selected you. I do not intend to
- Strategy of meeting individual needs at theinterfere."
same time that project needs are metDuring the next two weeks, the conflicts got
- Method of clarifying what each individual andprogressively worse. Eddie felt that he was unable
organizational unit's contribution to the projectto cope with the situation by himself. The
should bedepartment managers did not respect the
Whether or not MBO is utilized, project objectivesauthority delegated to him by his superiors. For
must be set.the next two weeks, Eddie sent memos to Gary
In the project environment, conflicts are inevitable.in the early part of the week asking whether
However, conflicts and their resolution can beGary agreed with the priority list. There was no
planned for. For example, conflicts can easilyresponse to the two memos. Eddie then met with
develop out of a situation where members of aGary to discuss the deteriorating situation.
group have a misunderstanding of each other'sEddie: "Gary, I've sent you two memos to see if
roles and responsibilities. Through documentation,I'm doing anything wrong in establishing the
such as linear responsibility charts, it is possible toweekly priorities and schedules. Did you get my
establish formal organizational procedures (eithermemos?"
at the project level or company-wide). ResolutionGary: "Yes, I received your memos. But as I told
means collaboration in which people must rely onyou before, I have enough problems to worry
one another. Without this, mistrust will prevail.about without doing your job for you. If you can't
The most common types of conflicts involve:handle the work let me know and I'll find
- Manpower resourcessomeone who can."
- Equipment and facilitiesEddie returned to his desk and contemplated his
- Capital expendituressituation. Finally, he made a decision. Next week
- Costshe was going to put a signature block under his
- Technical opinions and trade-offsfor Gary to sign, with carbon copies for all division
- Prioritiesmanagers. "Now, let's see what happens,"
- Administrative proceduresremarked Eddie.
- SchedulingHANDLING CONFLICT IN PROJECT
- ResponsibilitiesMANAGEMENT
- Personality clashesPart 1: Facing the Conflict
Each of these conflicts can vary in relativeThe next several pages contain a six-part case
intensity over the life cycle of a project. Thestudy in conflict management. Read the
relative intensity can vary as a function of:instructions carefully on how to keep score and
- Getting closer to project constraintsuse the boxes as the worksheet for recording
- Having only two constraints instead of three (i.e.,your choice and the group's choice; after the case
time and performance, but not cost)study has been completed, your instructor will
- The project life cycle itselfprovide you with the proper grading system for
- The person with whom the conflict occursrecording your scores.
Sometimes conflict is "meaningful" and producesAs part of his first official duties, the new
beneficial results. These meaningful conflicts shoulddepartment manager informs you by memo that
be permitted to continue as long as projecthe has changed his input and output requirements
constraints are not violated and beneficial resultsfor the MIS project (on which you are the
are being received. An example of this would beproject manager) because of several complaints
two technical specialists arguing that each has aby his departmental employees. This is
better way of solving a problem, and each tryingcontradictory to the project plan that you
to find additional supporting data for hisdeveloped with the previous manager and are
hypothesis.currently working toward. The department
Conflicts can occur with anyone and overmanager states that he has already discussed this
anything. Some people contend that personalitywith the vice president and general manager, a
conflicts are the most difficult to resolve. Belowman to whom both of you report, and feels that
are several situations. The reader might considerthe former department manager made a poor
what he or she would do if placed in thedecision and did not get sufficient input from the
situations.employees who would be using the system as to
- Two of your functional team members appearthe best system specifications. You telephone him
to have personality clashes and almost alwaysand try to convince him to hold off on his request
assume opposite points of view duringfor change until a later time, but he refuses.
decision-making. They are both from the sameChanging the input–output requirements at this
line organization.point in time will require a major revision and will
- Manufacturing says that they cannot produceset back total system implementation by three
the end-item according to engineeringweeks. This will also affect other department
specifications.managers who expect to see this system
- R&D quality control and manufacturingoperational according to the original schedule. You
operations quality control argue as to who shouldcan explain this to your superiors, but the
perform a certain test on an R&D project.increased project costs will be hard to absorb.
R&D postulates that it is their project, andThe potential cost overrun might be difficult to
manufacturing argues that it will eventually go intoexplain at a later date.
production and that they wish to be involved asAt this point you are somewhat unhappy with
early as possible.yourself at having been on the search committee
- Mr. X is the project manager of a $65 millionthat found this department manager and
project of which $1 million is subcontracted out toespecially at having recommended him for this
another company in which Mr. Y is the projectposition. You know that something must be done,
manager. Mr. X does not consider Mr. Y as hisand the following are your alternatives:
counterpart and continually communicates with1. You can remind the department manager that
the director of engineering in Mr. Y's company.you were on the search committee that
Ideally, the project manager should report highrecommended him and then ask him to return
enough so that he can get timely assistance inthe favor, since he "owes you one."
resolving conflicts. Unfortunately, this is easier said2. You can tell the department manager that you
than done. Therefore, project managers mustwill form a new search committee to replace him
plan for conflict resolution. As examples of this:if he doesn't change his position.
- The project manager might wish to concede on3. You can take a tranquilizer and then ask your
a low-intensity conflict if he knows that apeople to try to perform the additional work
high-intensity conflict is expected to occur at awithin the original time and cost constraints.
later point in the project.4. You can go to the vice president and general
- Jones Construction Company has recently wonmanager and request that the former
a $120 million effort for a local company. Therequirements be adhered to, at least temporarily.
effort includes three separate construction5. You can send a memo to the department
projects, each one beginning at the same time.manager explaining your problem and asking him
Two of the projects are twenty-four months into help you find a solution.
duration, and the third is thirty-six months. Each6. You can tell the department manager that your
project has its own project manager. Whenpeople cannot handle the request and his people
resource conflicts occur between the projects,will have to find alternate ways of solving their
the customer is usually called in.problems.
- Richard is a department manager who must1. You can send a memo to the department
supply resources to four different projects.manager requesting an appointment, at his earliest
Although each project has an established priority,convenience, to help you resolve your problem.
the project managers continually argue that2. You can go to the department manager's
departmental resources are not being allocatedoffice later that afternoon and continue the
effectively. Richard now holds a monthly meetingdiscussion further.
with all four of the project managers and lets3. You can send the department manager a
them determine how the resources should bememo telling him that you have decided to use
allocated.the old requirements but will honor his request at
Many executives feel that the best way ofa later time.
resolving conflicts is by establishing priorities. ThisPart 2: Understanding Emotions
may be true as long as priorities are notAlthough other alternatives exist, assume that
continually shifted around. As an example,these are the only ones open to you at the
Minnesota Power and Light establishes priorities as:moment. Without discussing the answer with your
- Level 0: no completion dategroup, record the letter representing your choice
- Level 1: to be completed on or before a specificin the appropriate space on line 1 of the
dateworksheet under "Personal."
- Level 2: to be completed in or before a givenAs soon as all of your group have finished,
fiscal quarterdiscuss the problem as a group and determine
- Level 3: to be completed within a given yearthat alternative that the group considers to be
This type of technique will work as long as therebest. Record this answer on line 1 of the
are not a large number of projects in any oneworksheet under "Group." Allow ten minutes for
level.this part.
The most common factors influencing theNever having worked with this department
establishment of project priorities include:manager before, you try to predict what his
- The technical risks in developmentreactions will be when confronted with the
- The risks that the company will incur, financiallyproblem. Obviously, he can react in a variety of
or competitivelyways:
- The nearness of the delivery date and the1. he can accept your solution in its entirety
urgencywithout asking any questions.
- The penalties that can accompany late delivery
dates1. He can discuss some sort of justification in
- The expected savings, profit increase, andorder to defend his position.
return on investment2. He can become extremely annoyed with having
- The amount of influence that the customerto discuss the problem again and demonstrate
possesses, possibly due to the size of the projecthostility.
- The impact on other projects or product lines3. He can demonstrate a willingness to cooperate
- The impact on affiliated organizationswith you in resolving the problem.
The ultimate responsibility for establishing priorities4. He can avoid making any decision at this time
rests with top-level management. Yet even withby withdrawing from the discussion.
priority establishment, conflicts still develop. DavidPart 3: Establishing Communications
Wilemon has identified several reasons whyIn the table above are several possible
conflicts still occur[1]:statements that could be made by the
- The greater the diversity of disciplinarydepartment manager when confronted with the
expertise among the participants of a projectproblem. Without discussion with your group, place
team, the greater the potential for conflict toa check mark beside the appropriate emotion that
develop among members of the team.could describe this statement. When each
- The lower the project manager's degree ofmember of the group has completed his choice,
authority, reward, and punishment power overdetermine the group choice. Numerical values will
those individuals and organizational units supportingbe assigned to your choices in the discussion that
his project, the greater the potential for conflictfollows. Do not mark the worksheet at this time.
to develop.Allow ten minutes for this part.
- The less the specific objectives of a projectUnhappy over the department manager's memo
(cost, schedule, and technical performance) areand the resulting follow-up phone conversation,
understood by the project team members, theyou decide to walk in on the department
more likely it is that conflict will develop.manager. You tell him that you will have a
- The greater the role of ambiguity among theproblem trying to honor his request. He tells you
participants of a project team, the more likely it isthat he is too busy with his own problems of
that conflict will develop.restructuring his department and that your
- The greater the agreement on superordinateschedule and cost problems are of no concern to
goals by project team participants, the lower thehim at this time. You storm out of his office,
potential for detrimental conflict.leaving him with the impression that his actions
- The more the members of functional areasand remarks are not in the best interest of either
perceive that the implementation of a projectthe project or the company.
management system will adversely usurp theirThe department manager's actions do not, of
traditional roles, the greater the potential forcourse, appear to be those of a dedicated
conflict.manager. He should be more concerned about
- The lower the percent need forwhat's in the best interest of the company. As
interdependence among organizational unitsyou contemplate the situation, you wonder if you
supporting a project, the greater the potential forcould have received a better response from him
dysfunctional conflict.had you approached him differently. In other
- The higher the managerial level within a projectwords, what is your best approach to opening up
or functional area, the more likely it is thatcommunications between you and the
conflicts will be based upon deep-seated parochialdepartment manager? From the list of
resentments. By contrast, at the project or taskalternatives shown below, and working alone,
level, it is more likely that cooperation will beselect the alternative that best represents how
facilitated by the task orientation andyou would handle this situation. When all members
professionalism that a project requires forof the group have selected their personal choices,
completion.repeat the process and make a group choice.
CONFLICT RESOLUTIONRecord your personal and group choices on line 3
Although each project within the company mayof the worksheet. Allow ten minutes for this part.
be inherently different, the company may wish to1. Comply with the request and document all
have the resulting conflicts resolved in the sameresults so that you will be able to defend yourself
manner. The four most common methods are:at a later date in order to show that the
1. The development of company-wide conflictdepartment manager should be held accountable.
resolution policies and procedures2. Immediately send him a memo reiterating your
2. The establishment of project conflict resolutionposition and tell him that at a later time you will
procedures during the early planning activitiesreconsider his new requirements. Tell him that
3. The use of hierarchical referraltime is of utmost importance, and you need an
4. The requirement of direct contactimmediate response if he is displeased.
Many companies have attempted to develop3. Send him a memo stating that you are holding
company-wide policies and procedures for conflicthim accountable for all cost overruns and schedule
resolution, but this method is often doomed todelays.
failure because each project and conflict is4. Send him a memo stating you are considering
different. Furthermore, project managers, byhis request and that you plan to see him again at
virtue of their individuality, and sometimes differinga later date to discuss changing the requirements.
amounts of authority and responsibility, prefer to5. See him as soon as possible. Tell him that he
resolve conflicts in their own fashion.need not apologize for his remarks and actions,
A second method for resolving conflicts, and oneand that you have reconsidered your position and
that is often very effective, is to "plan" forwish to discuss it with him.
conflicts during the planning activities. This can be6. Delay talking to him for a few days in hopes
accomplished through the use of linearthat he will cool off sufficiently and then see him
responsibility charts. Planning for conflict resolutionin hopes that you can reopen the discussions.
is similar to the first method except that each7. Wait a day or so for everyone to cool off and
project manager can develop his own policies,then try to see him through an appointment;
rules, and procedures.apologize for losing your temper, and ask him if
Hierarchial referral for conflict resolution, in theory,he would like to help you resolve the problem.
appears as the best method because neither thePart 4: Conflict Resolution Modes
project manager nor the functional manager willHaving never worked with this manager before,
dominate. Under this arrangement, the projectyou are unsure about which conflict resolution
and functional managers agree that for a propermode would work best. You decide to wait a few
balance to exist their common superior mustdays and then set up an appointment with the
resolve the conflict to protect the company'sdepartment manager without stating what
best interest. Unfortunately, this is not realisticsubject matter will be discussed. You then try to
because the common superior cannot bedetermine what conflict resolution mode appears
expected to continually resolve lower-levelto be dominant based on the opening remarks of
conflicts and it gives the impression that thethe department manager. Neglecting the fact that
functional and project managers cannot resolveyour conversation with the department manager
their own problems.might already be considered as confrontation, for
The last method is direct contact in whicheach statement shown below, select the conflict
conflicting parties meet face-to-face and resolveresolution mode that the department manager
their disagreement. Unfortunately, this methodappears to prefer. After each member of the
does not always work and, if continually stressed,group has recorded his personal choices in the
can result in conditions where individuals will eithertable on page 304, determine the group choices.
suppress the identification of problems or developNumerical values will be attached to your answers
new ones during confrontation.at a later time. Allow ten minutes for this part.
Many conflicts can be either reduced or eliminated1. Withdrawal is retreating from a potential conflict.
by constant communication of the project2. Smoothing is emphasizing areas of agreement
objectives to the team members. This continualand de-emphasizing areas of disagreement.
repetition may prevent individuals from going too
far in the wrong direction. 
THE MANAGEMENT OF CONFLICTSPart 5: Understanding Your Choices
Good project managers realize that conflicts are1. Compromising is the willingness to give and take.
inevitable, but that good procedures or techniques2. Forcing is directing the resolution in one direction
can help resolve them. Once a conflict occurs, theor another, a win-or-lose position.
project manager must:3. Confrontation is a face-to-face meeting to
- Study the problem and collect all availableresolve the conflict.
informationAssume that the department manager has
- Develop a situational approach or methodologyrefused to see you again to discuss the new
- Set the appropriate atmosphere or climaterequirements. Time is running out, and you would
If a confrontation meeting is necessary betweenlike to make a decision before the costs and
conflicting parties, then the project managerschedules get out of hand. From the list below,
should be aware of the logical steps and sequenceselect your personal choice and then, after each
of events that should be taken. These include:group member is finished, find a group choice.
- Setting the climate: establishing a willingness to1. Disregard the new requirements, since they
participateweren't part of the original project plan.
- Analyzing the images: how do you see yourself2. Adhere to the new requirements, and absorb
and others, and how do they see you?the increased costs and delays.
- Collecting the information: getting feelings out in3. Ask the vice president and general manager to
the openstep in and make the final decision.
- Defining the problem: defining and clarifying allPart 6: Interpersonal Influences
positions1. Ask the other department managers who may
- Sharing the information: making the informationrealize a schedule delay to try to convince this
available to alldepartment manager to ease his request or even
- Setting the appropriate priorities: developingdelay it.
working sessions for setting priorities andRecord your answer on line 5 of the worksheet.
timetablesAllow five minutes for this part.
- Organizing the group: forming cross-functionalAssume that upper-level management resolves
problem-solving groupsthe conflict in your favor. In order to complete
- Problem-solving: obtaining cross-functionalthe original work requirements you will need
involvement, securing commitments, and settingsupport from this department manager's
the priorities and timetableorganization. Unfortunately, you are not sure as to
- Developing the action plan: getting commitmentwhich type of interpersonal influence to use.
- Implementing the work: taking action on the planAlthough you are considered as an expert in your
- Following up: obtaining feedback on thefield, you fear that this manager's functional
implementation for the action planemployees may have a strong allegiance to the
The project manager or team leader should alsodepartment manager and may not want to
understand conflict minimization procedures. Theseadhere to your requests. Which of the following
include:interpersonal influence styles would be best under
- Pausing and thinking before reactingthe given set of conditions?
- Building trust1. You threaten the employees with penalty
- Trying to understand the conflict motivespower by telling them that you will turn in a bad
- Keeping the meeting under controlperformance report to their department manager.
- Listening to all involved parties2. You can use reward power and promise the
- Maintaining a give-and-take attitudeemployees a good evaluation, possible promotion,
- Educating others tactfully on your viewsand increased responsibilities on your next project.
- Being willing to say when you were wrong3. You can continue your technique of trying to
- Not acting as a superman and leveling theconvince the functional personnel to do your
discussion only once in a whilebidding because you are the expert in the field.
Thus, the effective manager, in conflict4. You can try to motivate the employees to do
problem-solving situations:a good job by convincing them that the work is
- Knows the organizationchallenging.
- Listens with understanding rather than evaluation5. You can make sure that they understand that
- Clarifies the nature of the conflictyour authority has been delegated to you by the
- Understands the feelings of othersvice president and general manager and that they
- Suggests the procedures for resolvingmust do what you say.
differences6. You can try to build up friendships and
- Maintains relationships with disputing partiesoff-work relationships with these people and rely
- Facilitates the communications processon referent power.
- Seeks resolutionsRecord your personal and group choices on line 6
CONFLICT RESOLUTION MODESof the worksheet. Allow ten minutes for
Confronting (or Collaborating)completion of this part.
The management of conflicts places the projectSolutions to the Project Management Conflict
manager in the precarious situation of having toExercise
select a conflict resolution mode (previouslyPART ONE: FACING THE CONFLICT
defined in Section 7.4). Based upon the situation,After reading the answers that follow, record
the type of conflict, and whom the conflict isyour score on line 1 of the worksheet
with, any of these modes could be justified. 
With this approach, the conflicting parties meet1. Although many project managers and functional
face-to-face and try to work through theirmanagers negotiate by "returning" favors, this
disagreements. This approach should focus morecustom is not highly recommended. The
on solving the problem and less on beingdepartment manager might feel some degree of
combative. This approach is collaboration andindebtedness at first, but will surely become
integration where both parties need to win. Thisdefensive in follow-on projects in which you are
method should be used:involved, and might even get the idea that this will
- When you and the conflicting party can both getbe the only way that he will be able to deal with
at least what you wanted and maybe moreyou in the future. If this was your choice, allow
- To reduce costone point on line 1.
- To create a common power base2. Threats can only lead to disaster. This is a
- To attack a common foesurefire way of ending a potentially good
- When skills are complementaryarrangement before it starts. Allow no points if
- When there is enough timeyou selected this as your solution.
Compromising3. If you say nothing, then you accept full
- When there is trustresponsibility and accountability for the schedule
- When you have confidence in the other person'sdelay and increased costs. You have done nothing
abilityto open communications with the department
- When the ultimate objective is to learnmanager. This could lead into additional conflicts on
To compromise is to bargain or to search forfuture projects. Enter two points on line 1 if this
solutions so both parties leave with some degreewas your choice.
of satisfaction. Compromising is often the result4. Requesting upper-level management to step in
of confrontation. Some people argue thatat this point can only complicate the situation.
compromise is a "give and take" approach, whichExecutives prefer to step in only as a last resort.
leads to a "win-win" position. Others argue thatUpper-level management will probably ask to talk
compromise is a "lose-lose" position, since neitherto the department manager first. Allow two
party gets everything he/she wants or needs.points on line 1 if this was your choice.
Compromise should be used:5. Although he might become defensive upon
- When both parties need to be winnersreceiving your memo, it will become difficult for
- When you can't winhim to avoid your request for help. The question,
- When others are as strong as you areof course, is when he will give you this help. Allow
- When you haven't time to wineight points on line 1 if you made this choice.
- To maintain your relationship with your opponent6. Trying to force your solution on the
- When you are not sure you are rightdepartment manager will severely threaten him
Smoothing (or Accommodating)and provide the basis for additional conflict. Good
- When you get nothing if you don'tproject managers will always try to predict
- When stakes are moderateemotional reactions to whatever decisions they
- To avoid giving the impression of "fighting"might be forced to make. For this choice, allow
This approach is an attempt to reduce thetwo points on line 1 of the worksheet.
emotions that exist in a conflict. This is7. Making an appointment for a later point in time
accomplished by emphasizing areas of agreementwill give both parties a chance to cool off and
and de-emphasizing areas of disagreement. Anthink out the situation further. He will probably find
example of smoothing would be to tell someone,it difficult to refuse your request for help and will
"We have agreed on three of the five points andbe forced to think about it between now and the
there is no reason why we cannot agree on theappointment. Allow ten points for this choice.
last two points." Smoothing does not necessarily8. An immediate discussion will tend to open
resolve a conflict, but tries to convince bothcommunications or keep communication open. This
parties to remain at the bargaining table becausewill be advantageous. However, it can also be a
a solution is possible. In smoothing, one maydisadvantage if emotions are running high and
sacrifice one's own goals in order to satisfy thesufficient time has not been given to the selection
needs of the other party. Smoothing should beof alternatives. Allow six points on line 1 if this
used:was your choice.
- To reach an overarching goal9. Forcing the solution your way will obviously
- To create obligation for a trade-off at a lateralienate the department manager. The fact that
dateyou do intend to honor his request at a later time
- When the stakes are lowmight give him some relief especially if he
- When liability is limitedunderstands your problem and the potential
- To maintain harmonyimpact of his decision on other departments. Allow
- When any solution will be adequatethree points on line 1 for this choice.