Leadership - A Tool for Self-Development

Becoming a leader is not simply a matter ofcreation, "putting first things first" is the action
ordering and dictating instruction to people belowpoint.
you. Rather, leadership should be viewed as an art4. Always think "win-win"
of communicating and learning from otherOn the other hand, another principle you need to
individuals. You are probably already aware thatremember is having a mental attitude of a
there are many kinds of leadership techniques"win-win" situation. Covey names this principle as
that is each effective in its own way. However,"interpersonal leadership" wherein your need other
whatever the form of leadership a person utilizes,people to reach your goals and so that you can
one similarity among them is that they will learnhelp them reach theirs. Covey believes that there
more from leading others to do their job properlyis enough resources to go around so, people need
because they will discover their communicationto take a cooperative approach rather than
style and learn from their mistakes and thechallenge each other where one would become
mistakes of other people.the loser.
It is safe to conclude that you can actually learn5. Seek to understand and to be understood
more when you are given the task of teachingThis is another habit that is essential in today's
someone else, because you would need to reviewmodern world: communication. Communication is
all the theories and understand the conceptsvery powerful and it can either help you achieve
better before you can teach it to another person.success or lose it. Covey has a simple formula for
Being given the responsibility to teach is a heavythis, you must first "diagnose before you
one so, it is really no wonder that leaders whoprescribe." While being a very simple principle,
teach effectively turn out to be very effectivecommunication is very effective and it is an
and become great leaders later on.important aspect in developing relationships in all
With this in mind, it is inevitable for the instructoraspects of a person's life.
to learn from teaching other people because theyIn today's world, you may wonder why people
become involved in their own learning process.have such a difficult time in communicating with
This kind of teaching exposure can be describedothers especially with the availability of different
as an effective leadership method which iselectronic gadgets such as cell phones, e-mail to
participatory and experimental. From teachingSMS tools such as TeleFlip, and voicemail to text
other people, the leader or the "instructor" will alsotools such as SimulSays and CallWave. People
be able to discover his competencies as well asshould realize that communicating with other
his strengths and weaknesses. It would alsopeople is essential and they need to use all the
develop his interpersonal skills because as a leadertools available to them to improve their
he would know how to effectively communicaterelationships.
with other people to get the message across.6. Synergize
It is also interesting to note that the process ofComplementary to number 5, this is the principle
learning by teaching also follows the process ofwherein cooperating with others is the key to
Steve Covey's formula of the Seven Habits ofbecoming a successful leader and a successful
Highly Effective People. These steps include:person. Covey believes that the "whole" meaning
1. Becoming Pro-activemore than a single person, is greater than its
Basically, becoming pro-active means that you"parts" which is a single person. Each person has
control the external environment you live insomething to contribute so they can make the
instead of letting it control you. You need towhole stronger and the way to success easier to
follow the principles of self-determination, thenavigate.
power of choice, and the right to decide your7. Sharpening the saw
response to stimulus and circumstances. In theLastly, Covey champions the principle of renewing
same way, you can become pro-active in helpingone's self. This habit is essential because it can
other people learn.have an effect on the other habits. Self-renewal is
2. Beginning with a goal in mindnecessary for a person to grow and be
Steve Covey calls this principle of having personalencouraged. There are four parts in renewing
leadership; you need to learn from yourself soone's self including the spiritual, the physical, the
that you can move forward to your aims.mental, and the emotional parts. All these aspects
Because when you develop the habit of focusingof you need to be fed and developed so that you
you attention on relevant activities, you can buildwill always remain sharp and in-charge of your
a foundation that will enable you to avoidown life.
distractions and instead, focus on the goal toAs you can see, the seven habits of highly
become successful.effective people certainly give us a wider
3. "Put first things first"perspective of how to become more effective
Meanwhile, Covey names this principle as theand productive in today's world. However, you
"personal management." This is about organizingshould also note that these principles are universal
your activities and your life so that it willand they will stand the test of time because
complement the goals you set for yourself inhuman nature will remain constant no matter the
number 2. While having goals is more of a mentalera they live in.