Leadership Development - Must a Good Leader Be Liked?

In the workplace every day, we meet a wholebare minimum required, and will generate high
range of different people. It is inevitable,productivity for a relatively low turnover. So it is
therefore, that some of these people we will like,imperative that a good leader must be respected
and some we will not get along with so easily. Ofand able to get results, as well as also being able
course, some of these people are going to beto find out what motivates each member of their
leaders - is it imperative that a good leader mustteam personally - and this care for people is
be one of likeable character, or is it possible for asomething that cannot be faked, or brought to
leader to be equally effective without the luxurythe working environment by someone who could
of being liked by those they lead?be defined as unlikeable or unliked. Having said
Good leaders must be many things in varyingthat, part of being a good leader is also going to
quantities - for example:be making difficult decisions which may not be
* Trustworthypopular (obviously with the best interest of both
* Enthusiasticthe business and the team at heart), and it is
* Confidentimportant that a good leader does not value being
* Purposefulliked above making a sound business decision.
* Tolerant and calmWhat role does Leadership Development play in all
* Analyticalof this? Is it possible to learn all the qualities of a
* Committed to excellencegood leader, and thus for a person to transform
* Respectedthemselves from having less likable qualities to
They must also be able to motivate and trustbeing really liked? Leadership skills can of course
their workforce, communicate their ideas well,be learned, but leadership also comes from within
work effectively and practically, encourage and- leadership can bring about a transformation
inspire their staff, and above all, lead by example.within those being led, but the leader must have
They must have drive, passion and enthusiasm,both the right tools and the right attitude and
not only for what they do, but for the peopledisposition to see that transformation begin to
who they are responsible for.happen, and therefore reap the benefits of
BUT is it necessary that they are liked, or evenfollowship. A good follower will be able to develop
likable? Or is it purely an added bonus if this is thetheir skills such as taking responsibility,
case?demonstrating initiative, working collaboratively and
There is an old military saying that if you takemanaging themselves effectively. Good leadership
care of your troops, they will take care of you.is more important than ever in times of
Another vital element to a good leader, therefore,uncertainty and organisations who continue to
is taking care of those they lead. Employees whoinvest in their people and develop their leaders will
feel good about their workplace and the wayoptimise business growth.
they are led will contribute far more above the